Reading books on sex and love making can be entertaining and educational, but actually getting to experience the sexuality that is preached there is far more satisfying. Here’s a naughty little post for women who want to experience a bit more than the usual sex.

Don’t go struggling to do cartwheels and contortions. Going through the motions to create a ‘unique’ position is distracting as you have to concentrate long and hard on keeping from toppling over. That’s not fun. Stick to the basics, but with a twist.

Here are the more ‘ordinary’ positions and my take on how you and I can enjoy them more.

1. Missionary

• Wrapping your legs around his waist is ok for the first 15 to 30 minutes, any much longer and you will feel the tired feeling on those legs. Hold your legs by the crook of the knees and transfer the strain to your arms (which aren’t doing much in this particular position, anyway). Holding your legs apart yourself for the duration of this position will let you concentrate on your orgasm.

2. Doggy position

• Deep penetration from behind with a bit of help on your part (playing with your clitoris while your partner is making love to you) will make this position your new favorite. The strain here is on your arms, and maybe it’s difficult to use one to play with yourself. My suggestion: When you use one hand to fondle your clitoris, transfer your weight from the other arm supporting your upper body to your elbows and shoulders.

• Closed doggy. For this, you will need a lot of lubrication (waterbased KY jelly is recommended). Keep your legs closed while he makes love to you from behind. This variation works when your partner is particularly well endowed (in terms of length), and deep penetration via regular dog style is painful more than pleasurable. Your legs and your butt cheeks contribute to the friction, which is a bit different from the usual doggy style.

3. Girl on Top -

• If he is lying on his back, a woman can only use her legs for support. Legs get wobbly after a while and you find that you cannot move up and down after a few minutes as the knees become wobbly. The secret to this is weight distribution. If your legs are short, plant your feet firmly to his side and move up and down as if you’re squatting, equally distributing your weight on your thighs and legs. It’s a bit easier for those with long legs, because they can kneel while doing this, and the knees are included in the weight distribution.

• Girl on top In reverse - This is the easiest variation for me. Ride him with your back facing him. Weight distribution in this position is easier as you can use your arms as leverage (holding his knees).

• Make him sit up or recline - This way you can use his shoulders or neck for support. You still need to distribute your weight equally between your thighs and legs, but now you can hold on to him while you do so.

4. Standing up - For this you will need to recline against a wall for leverage. Plant one foot firmly on the ground, and hold the other up by the crook of the knees using one arm. Your other arm could hold on to his body. The strain on the arm holding one leg up is the main downside of this position, but if your partner does not mind you switching arms to lift one leg every once in a while, this could be your favorite position yet.

These tips are designed to keep the woman (you) comfortable for the duration of the intercourse. Orgasm comes to us only when we feel relaxed and not thinking of something else (like how tired you are). How to drive a man wild in bed? You have to start with how to drive yourself wild in bed.

This post is dedicated to my fiery Scorpio guy friends, reputed to last all night long.

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This is the third batch of search engine questions that I will address directly. It’s fun to discover what words others used to reach my site.

1. why are aries men so jealous?

They insist on being your first priority. Any deviation from putting them on top of everything else will have them sulking.He wants you to consider his opinion about anything before you ask others.

2. affair with an older woman

This could lead to a very fruitful relationship, if done right. An older woman has a lot more experience in life and love, but with it comes a little bit more excess emotional baggage than women who have less experience. The usual set up is the older woman treating the younger guy like her baby. For more of my thoughts on this please refer to my posts on May-December affair (May-December Affair of all time, Older woman’s Dilemma and Appeal of the Younger guy)

3. the appearance of a scorpio guy

He looks totally harmless but seems to gaze a few seconds longer at things or a person than other people. Books have always mentioned gaze intensity and eye depth as the giveaway physical trait of Scorpios, which is the probable reason for their habit of wearing shades even when it’s inappropriate (re: at night or inside an already dim room). His are never dull and always seem to convey a message that’s different from his over-all demeanor of boyishness. You could do a staring contest with this guy and 99% of the time, you will be the first to look away.

4. ask out a scorpio guy

Just act interested. Look at him covertly a few times or preen when he’s around. He will notice, trust me. If he likes you, you won’t even have to do or say anything. He will be the one to approach and start a conversation about some mundane thing, then progressively, about something that will lead to a date. If he doesn’t like you, however, be prepared for barely concealed amusement or even derision; but not all Scorpios will show this. Some nicer Scorpios will simply enjoy the attention, but never seem to take the hint, making you think that he’s thick. He’s not. He just… doesn’t like you.

5. cute bozanian beast fighter player

bwikikik *evil laugh*… the person who typed this on his/her search bar probably found what he was looking for as I did interview one cute Bozanian Beastfighter player named Chaze during the Ragnarok Philippine Championship 2007 season. Here’s the link.

6. does a guy normally want his first love back after 20 years

Some men I met admitted to pining for a past lover at one time. But actually going back to that girl depends a lot on the status of a guy’s present relationship (or lack thereof). Most people in general want to know what happened to someone they connected with a long time ago. This is probably the reason why Friendster and/or Multiply became such a hit.

7. leo dating traits

One word… impressive.

8. the personality of a tomato

I love this question, but I’m not qualified to answer it. You can go to this site I discovered. Tomatocasual.com

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I just recently installed a “contact me” form at the upper part of this page. You can use that to ask direct questions. I will continue to answer search engine questions, though, because it’s fun.

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I’ve been going through my website stats and I noticed the predominance of love sign-related questions that led people to my blog. Hopefully, people who went here via these key words found what they were looking for. Thanks to the google and search engine spiders that showed hits on my site, but I’m still itching to answer these questions directly.

Here are a few:

1. aries men date choices

Aries guys love to pamper their women like princesses. He wants a setting where he can pretend to be Prince Charming and you, Cinderella. Any date place that will at least let him roleplay his fantasy. And for goodness’ sake, let him pay for everything.

2. how a sagittarian declares his love

Usually in a joking manner. Through the laughter that ensues you will realize that he’s dead serious about it, and you laugh about it some more. Make sure you don’t give the vibe that you don’t believe him. Just smile, accept his declaration graciously, then suggest to celebrate it with a 2-person party (or with some close friends).

3. Jealous taurus guy

This guy is verryy slow to anger, so if he does show his jealousy, you must have done something extreme. Let him rant it out, leave him alone for a while until he cools down. Don’t argue with a bull that’s already seeing red, he won’t know the difference between the color of your loving apology and his bloodlust.

4. How important is beauty to a scorpio guy?

Not much. He will love your sincerity and faith in him, but your physical appearance won’t matter much. You might get that wrong impression though when his constantly moving eyes rove over all the sexy girls in magazine covers, but that just the legendary Scorpio libido talking.

5. the difference between a scorpio guy and a libra guy

This is like comparing fire and ice. These 2 guys are so different that someone who might have been born in the awkward October date (Oct 23) will EITHER show the traits of a Scorpio or a Libra. Never both. No hybrid of traits, no mistaking what his sign is. You can test the difference in terms of expressing disapproval. The Scorpio guy will be uncompromisingly adamant about the issue and will be passionate about his reasons, while the Libra guy will probably launch a long discussion about the pros and cons prior to deciding whether he should disapprove or not. And when he (Libra) finally makes a stand, he will justify his actions with a well-thought out diatribe.

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