Evil Woobie

As a kid, I have been very curious about relationships and lurked around adults when they had their heart to heart conversations, like when aunts, family friends and girl friends of my mom would come over; or the drinking sessions in our house and my dad’s friends would be there talking about anything under the [...]

This is for those who are in new relationships (first few months) and would like to get to know their new partners without being too obvious about it. Simple tips that you can do while in a date, talking on the phone, SMS or chatting online. Inspired by questions that I have been asked before, [...]

I?m not quite sure why, but people love to tell me things that they won?t even talk to their best friends about. (Oh, the stories I could tell.) The bizarre part is that I don?t even know most of the people who confide in me. Strangers waiting for the bus, the girl bagging my [...]

I’ve been re-reading my IM archives and trying to find a pattern among the petty relationship fights that some of my friends and acquaintances asked me to help them with. I realize that there are stuff that women and men say to each other that could mean one or 2 other things… I call these, [...]

There are categories and labels that we use for almost anything we want to organize. Subconciously, we even do that to people we meet. If you ever called someone a “loser” or a “friend”, you’ve probably done this at least once in your life.
One defense mechanism I learned as a single girl is to categorize [...]

The The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene is the best book discussing the game of love, what aspects of relationships the efforts should be concentrated on and when to make your move. This has helped me a lot in my advice giving and my own personal relationships. I know it will help you too.

Consider [...]

Some of you knew me in other forums and sites. Some just discovered me through this blog and the social networks I joined. I take this opportunity to thank everyone who visited, and continue to visit. Thank you.
I closed down my goody blog “Woobie: life, gaming and introspection” because of maintenance issues and decided to [...]

Gift-giving time is upon us once again, and “hello” we say to the season of generosity and splurging! We receive gifts from our friends, families, partners, children and even strangers who just want to give you something.
Let me relate a gift-giving horror story that tells of how a girl got into a rut relationship with [...]