Evil Woobie

This is for those who are in new relationships (first few months) and would like to get to know their new partners without being too obvious about it. Simple tips that you can do while in a date, talking on the phone, SMS or chatting online. Inspired by questions that I have been asked before, [...]

I?m not quite sure why, but people love to tell me things that they won?t even talk to their best friends about. (Oh, the stories I could tell.) The bizarre part is that I don?t even know most of the people who confide in me. Strangers waiting for the bus, the girl bagging my [...]

A lot have been said about not ordering spaghetti during a date because it’s messy to eat. Care should be taken when ordering food during a formal date because your partner is watching your every move. I mean, where else will he or she look when you’re seated across each other?
Besides spaghetti, here’s a list [...]

There comes a point in a person’s life when superficial traits (such as looks) become less and less important when seeking a life partner. Rather, one seeks a mate that can complement his/her personality and share his/her dreams for the longterm.

Onegoodlove.com is a gay dating and lesbian dating site that offers a completely different matching [...]

I’ve been re-reading my IM archives and trying to find a pattern among the petty relationship fights that some of my friends and acquaintances asked me to help them with. I realize that there are stuff that women and men say to each other that could mean one or 2 other things… I call these, [...]

Someone frankly pointed out to me that perhaps there’s a viewpoint to a guy’s dating insecurity that I did not consider. Did I for one minute think that the reason for a man’s hesitation to date women is not behavioral, but rather, biological? Although taken aback, I admit that I did indeed overlook that particularly [...]

This post is somewhat related to a previous one on physical abuse inside dating relationships. Only this time, I’m going to address the close relative of physical abuse, verbal abuse.
No matter how hard dating couples try to prevent a verbal exchange of hurtful words, this is bound to happen one way or another. The healthy [...]

I just have to share my delight at this new dating site that I found: Friendsation! Besides availing of free online dating and free chat features, members can blog, rate photos, and develop buddy lists.
Not excited yet? Here’s a delicious idea: how exciting would it be if you can podcast a joke that you’ve [...]

In my quest to help my friends (and others) achieve their optimum dating or connection skills, I ventured out to find chat sites that will serve as test grounds for their budding prowess. I stumbled upon Wireclub.com and got attracted by the site’s colors and the convenience of signing up. So I stayed awhile.
They [...]

The The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene is the best book discussing the game of love, what aspects of relationships the efforts should be concentrated on and when to make your move. This has helped me a lot in my advice giving and my own personal relationships. I know it will help you too.

Consider [...]