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Category Archives: Whispers from the Wonderland

Romanticizing the Eraserheads: Reminiscing My College Years

The band Eraserheads is a symbol of my college days. We’d go to their concerts and wouldn’t mind that there were no seats. I remember nights of watching them perform in parking lots and the way I kept my hands inside my boyfriend’s pockets because it was so chilly. They disbanded in 2002, but their [...]

Stages of Love: From Fun to Gone

A fellow gamer and cosplay enthusiast, sylv3rblade asked me via my contact page to talk about break ups, or what I call the dark side of love.
Of course, it would have been a lot easier to talk about how wonderfully blissful love is, or the many easy ways that romance relationships can bloom in this [...]

Wicked Wedding Wishes from the Cosmic Universe

June is Bride season! I am sure you’ve attended weddings before and have seen bridesmaids and mostly women gather around the cake towards the end of the reception. Have you ever wondered why this ritual is repeated every time?
It’s for the wishes.

In the Wedding world, these wishes come inside Chinese fortune cookies or attached [...]

Why the Hell Did He Break Up With Me?!?

…THAT is the question we often hear from ourselves when we get dissed, torn, broken, and shooed to the side. If it’s too much pride (or too much hurt) that prevents you from calmly and objectively asking “WHY?”, maybe some meddling third party can do it for you.
Admittedly, I’ve had my share of breaking up [...]

Womanizer: A Discussion on Cheating Boyfriends

The latest Philippine showbiz news on the break up of Heart Evangelista (Love Ongpauco) and Jericho Rosales, dating for three years prior to their breakup this month, made waves all over the country. Their relationship is a good case study on ‘rich girl falls in love with a poor guy’, old money vs. new [...]

Mind Games 102: Reading Between the Lines

This is for those who are in new relationships (first few months) and would like to get to know their new partners without being too obvious about it. Simple tips that you can do while in a date, talking on the phone, SMS or chatting online. Inspired by questions that I have been asked before, [...]

Parents and My Cupid Theory

Happy Mother’s Day!
For this day, I’m going to be posting about one of the most fruitful relationship examples I know; that of parents! After all, these relationships bore fruits that are already walking the world spreading havoc and good cheer to everyone they meet, building enterprises and making the world run.
Stories on how these parents [...]

First Date: Be Unforgettable

How did your first date go? is the question of the moment when, after what for you is the best date of your life, your friends pester you with queries on the date details. You are basking in the afterglow, feeling high and being 100% sure that he feels the same. But does he really?
The [...]

A Tribute to Guy Friends

Guy Friends. Those ultra-lovable, ultra-sexy men in our lives that are the epitome of our ideal. We know their game, they know ours. They are here when we need them, just like girl friends, but better in a way that they can coach us with first hand info on how their fellow guys think and [...]

Relationships and Money

Starting a lasting love connection with someone includes being on the same page and having similar goals. Directing the flow of the relationship is difficult enough with all the quirks and bumps involving feelings and reactions, but there is one more factor that becomes an issue only when the couple considers it a big part [...]